A Narcissist’s Old Age, Dying and Death

As a narcissist ages, their behaviour gets more abusive as their sense of entitlement and jealousy grows.

They use their age to manipulate others

Older narcissists expect special treatment from everyone but most of all those closest to them.

They will use their age, health and their imminent demise in order to manipulate others.

…..and hate getting older

A narcissist is by nature a jealous person.

As their body starts to weaken and they suffer health issues they are reminded of their mortality.

They are reminded of their weakness by the youth and vitality of those around them.

So, they seek to punish them for it. As they age, they steadily become more jealous and their behaviour becomes more vile. There is an element of fear in their demise which makes their behaviour worse.

People are tools to the narcissist

Everyone is a narcissist’s tool to serve their purpose, most especially their children.

A narcissist will enforce a sense of obligation in their child.

This is so that they feel obligated to look after their parent through illness or old age.

In fact, I believe, some narcissists have children for a lifetime of on-demand narcissistic supply (attention). And for someone to be utterly subservient to them, their demands and to look after them in old age.

Narcissists expect to be priority to you

The relationships you have with partners, spouses, family members and friends won’t matter to a narcissist.

Your life, job and hobbies are not a priority to them. Your physical or mental health is not a worry for them.

They are the centre of the world, as far as they are concerned, to you and everyone else.

All they care about is whatever they want or need and finding someone to do everything for them. The easiest person to guilt into submission is their child, after a lifetime of expert manipulation.

They use their old age to manipulate

The prospect of their demise is something a narcissist exploits.

They know that we care and use it to guilt us into doing exactly as they wish. They will constantly refer to their demise, even if that is years away, in order to manipulate us.

Any health tests or screens will be exaggerated, lied about and turned into a drama.

Drama in the family as they are dying

When a narcissist is dying there is sure to be drama.

There will be hints and threats over their property and money. Divides between family members will be exploited at this time, to further drive the wedge between them.

Toxic on their death bed

There is no chance of the narcissist on their death bed becoming a nice person.

A toxic person in life is a toxic person as they approach death. And a narcissist is incapable of ever changing. They will, in fact, relish the thought of hurting you deeply as they pass away.

Their will becomes their last weapon

After their death and funeral, their will becomes the very last opportunity for the narcissist to spread their poison.

Favoured family members will receive more or all of the property.

Disliked members may not get anything at all or some trinket, just enough to be insulting.

Some malignant narcissists will leave just enough doubt in their will for it to be fought over. Or else they leave no will at all.

Use their property and money to cause resentment

The narcissist will use their property and money to manipulate people in life and so they do so in death.

The narcissist will tell multiple family members that they will inherit it all. These lies will cause renewed resentment between family members.

After all, the narcissist has spent their lifetime manipulating and lying their death and last wishes become an extension of this.

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