To a narcissist money is very important, because it serves them in so many different ways. It replaces love and connection Sadly, narcissists are incapable of forming genuine and sincere connections with others. They are too selfish and self-absorbed to be able to care about other people, including their own children and family members. As they don’t experience love for others, they direct their focus on money and material possessions.

This blog is intended to increase your self-awareness, and to empower you after narcissistic abuse. Validating experiences Whatever the relationship the narcissist has with you, their focus is on you and you become their target. It will be a very intense relationship, with a lot of ups and downs and very little…

It is important to identify what narcissistic abuse is like. The greater awareness you have of narcissistic abuse, the more chance you can break free and heal from it. Narcissistic abuse is the same, whether it’s from a narcissistic parent, partner, friend or work colleague. Fear Whatever my relationship was with…

This blog is about the narcissist within any group setting. It could be a friendship group, work setting, sport, hobby or leisure activity, about someone’s reputation within a town or any group of people. Seeking targets When they first meet new people narcissists are very perceptive, they can very easily work out…

In my last blog I discussed the recovery process after making the discovery about narcissistic personality disorder. This blog is about the ways in which narcissistic abuse has affected you, the ways to heal. Healing is essential, for you to life your best life. It’s also very important because the…

Making the discovery about narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a massive shock. Whoever is in your life that is suffering from NPD, will be someone that you love and care about. Someone that you have tried, perhaps for decades, to have a loving and reciprocal relationship with. Somehow, nothing you…

A narcissist has a vested interest in concealing the truth about themselves. If they were their true, vile selves all the time then no-one would want to have anything to do with them. Narcissists need other people because they lack a sense of self. …

There is a natural desire, once you discover the truth, to confront a narcissist. It is normal to want to react after being hurt and feeling betrayed. However, when you are coming from this angry or painful energy it is not necessarily the best thing to do. There may also be a little of hope that you can get them to understand and they may change. However, someone with…

I understand that this is a challenging topic for a lot of people who have suffered narcissistic abuse. However, for the purposes of this blog I will only be referring to self-forgiveness. I believe that this is an essential part of the healing process. Forgiveness in the family Coming from a narcissistic family, forgiveness…